Hey I’m Mirjam!

Holistic Sexuality Coach & Psychologist

My work is here to support you in awakening and mastering your sexual energy! When you know how to embody and use this energy you become a very powerful being. There is so much amazing potential inside of us that is not being used… and most people struggle to really experience their full sexual potential.

But I can tell you that in this moment, I truly feel fulfilled in my relationship and sexuality. The relationship with myself, as well as with the relationship with the man in my life. It is honest, pleasurable, secure, calm, hot, sexy, juicy, joyful, animalistic, nourishing and fulfilling. This kind of sex did not just fall out of the sky…

Ten years ago, I experienced pain during sex regularly and asked myself if this is all there is… In my teens I had read that orgasm is the same state as enlightenment (thank you Osho) and even though I was definitely not experiencing that, I felt there was more!

I wanted to be devoured and desired passionate fulfilling sex, but I didn’t really know how to open up to that myself, nor did I know how to invite my partner into this in a loving way. I didn’t know how to receive without pain. I didn’t know how to embody my inner wild woman without feeling like I was too much. I didn’t have the faintest idea of how to ride the orgasmic waves of pleasure alone or with a partner!

To open up to the kind of sex and relationships that unlock our full potential… I explored:

• Modern Sexual Anatomy (most books are NOT up-to-date nor complete)

• Spiritual & Sacred Sexuality

• Love - self love and sharing love

• Feeling safe in expressing my boundaries and needs

• Making sex and nudity normal (natural) again

• Creating polarity between the masculine and feminine

These are the components of this work that allow us to experience our body’s multi-orgasmic potential. This is my ongoing research and the framework of my Multi-Orgasmic Method programs, so you can finally experience great sex and aliveness as well!

Because we are not taught about all the ways to orgasm! We are not taught about all the different spots on and in our bodies that are so sensitive (or that can be sensitized). We are not taught how to awaken and use our own sexual energy…

➺ I travelled the world to attend intense taoist sexual alchemy and neo-tantric communities as well as dive into seminars to explore the sexual shadows of our society.

➺ I even worked as a high-class escort and dominatrix for a while… I went deep into the personal liberation of love and sexuality by living an open relationship style for the greater part of my life.

➺ I have given 600+ hands on tao-tantric bodywork and healing sessions to help awaken as well as release what blocks the free flow of love and sexual energy.

I came to this research through my dedication to a spiritual path in service of personal and global evolution, which has been present throughout my early teens and adult life. I had previously studied psychology (MSC) and spiritual counselling (MA) in which I worked for a while before moving into applied natural healthcare medicine and various healing methods.

My embodied research journey of discovering our sexual potential has helped me to become more joyful, loving and orgasmic in everyday life. In other words… I got my spark back!